Sooo...What Do You Do When You Break Up With Someone...?

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  • that you are still deeply in love with?
    and how the hell do get over them?

    i just broke up with someone i've been in love with for almost 3 years now...and i kinda don't know how to feel. in his words, "we're not even friends anymore." so yea, i feel sad, angry, relieved, disappointed...all sorts of things. i know it will be hard to get over him, he is my first love and my heart, and also one of my best friends. but we just couldn't work it out, we had so many issues. what can i do to stop thinking of him?


  • eat ice cream, talk to people that i love (friends/family), cry, listen to music, play sports, find ways to get my mind off of it .. even if i can't.

    good luck, and i'm so sorry that it had to happen. :(


  • When that happened to me I just stayed in my room and cried for 4 days, but then I distracted myself with as many other things as possible - went dancing, had dinner with friends, went to the movies, focused on my study and job, etc.

    There is no quick fix - it is going to take time


  • hook up with another guy


  • why did you break up with someone you loved so deeply?


  • Sorry, no easy answer there. I guess try to keep yourself occupied. Nothing can replace a loss of love.


  • Go on yahoo answers and talk to other people.


  • it will really really hurt especially if youve been with that one person for over 1 year, it will take a while for you to get over him, it takes time but youll get over him eventually. join a sport or an activity, it makes you focus on what youre doing instead of thinking about your ex. hang out with your girl buds, theyll understand how youre feeling and theyll talk to you when you need them. move on, it will be very hard but try finding another guy, get to know them, and youll eventually get over ur ex. but...if you still want him back, ..explain to him why you broke up with him, admit your mistakes, and ask him if he could give you another chance and try to work things out together wen you guys decide to start going out again. hope this hlped.


  • get involved with community projects


  • YOU COUNT YOUR BLESSING THEN YOU MOVE!!

    GOOD LUCK!


  • You have to just give it time. That is all I can really tell you. You may not be ready to find someone else and that's okay. If you are ready, however, then go have fun. It will get your mind off of him. And you may even find a new love. If it is meant to be, it will get better. Here is a song to help you get by. It Gets Better by Jo Dee Messina

    Good Luck and God Bless


  • I wouldn't know.
    I've never had a boyfriend n'or have I ever been in love with anybody.


  • Find a rebound guy.


  • time...it takes time...


  • burning up by jonas brothers


  • Move on
    You have to get over it sooner or later it might as well start sooner than later.
    Get a new hobby and hang out with friends as often as possible. AND try not to talk about him at ALL. That makes it linger all the longer.
    If you're watching, doing, participating in or listening to anything that reminds you of him immediately get out of the situation and find something else to do.
    Good luck.


  • umm...youd dont if you love eachother


  • cry and cry for hours and hours...


  • *GET DRUNK*

    Yeah, I don't think it's a good idea either, but I'm just being honest.


  • i'm still not over him...that was in like 3rd grade...


  • You know .. it is with a SENSE of relief that you go out and ENJOY the FREEDOM that being SINGLE Means -- and that can include going to community events, finding something you enjoy doing (by yourself), etc etc etc.


  • yeah..im undestand very well.....i feel like you at this moments...Nothing can replace a loss of love.

    I had any days craying(i think i do it now)...but the thinks happens for any question.....and that we will never know...
    be happy...dont cry...no more...and find yourself..the real womans who lives inside of you...

    good luck...be strong!


  • be sad for a while... i was rejected in a way a couple days back.. im kinda sad about that (crush for what 7 months? come on :( ) then i told her and she told me she hates me T.T







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